Expectations; How they can sometimes create limits on your life. Expectations; I expect gravity to be a constant, and the sun to come up every morning. There are times when expectations become a limiting event in our lives. Today, we are taking a look into how we create expectations that limit us in our lives, how to change them and bring allowing in its place. When we expect something to be, or show up in our lives in a certain way, and they don’t, what then? Are you expecting a job to look or be a certain way, a relationship or love to be a certain way? Is there an expectation preventing you from allowing it to come in a different way? Is the expectation that you are holding onto dis-allowing you to see the way it is trying to come in? Sometimes we hold onto the expectation of what something should look like (or think they should look like) to the point of not allowing any other way for it to be. This is when expectations become limiting in our lives. Sometimes this kind of expectation creates a situation that the way we want it too look like just can’t happen because of the limiting beliefs surrounding the expectation. Remember like attracts like. Example; In this situation, one of my clients was having a problem within her relationship with her husband. Although she loved him, she felt that he didn’t love her in a way that she could see. She said, “He doesn’t give me cards or gifts, not even for my b-day or holidays. I have told him it hurts my feelings, and still just won’t do this for me, it makes me feel like he thinks I’m not worth the effort, or important to him.” I asked her,” in what ways does he show you he loves you?” Her response; “He goes to work, and keeps our cars running”……. She couldn’t think of much else. Through more digging, it was discovered that her father gave cards, and did small things for her mom. So her expectation that this is how love should look came into play. Because this wasn’t how her relationship was with her husband, to her he didn’t love her in the way she wanted to the point where she could not see the ways he was trying to show his love for her. What we did to change this? · We worked on releasing the expectation! · She was given many downloads surrounding how to see how her husband shows her his love from God-Creator’s perspective. · Also working on her worthiness issues. Healing for these things. · Took a look into what she was learning (in the positive) from feeling not worth the effort and feeling not important. (and healed these things) A few days after this session, I received this email. KristyLea, I just have to thank you and let you know what has happened since our last session. My husband came in from work yesterday and he had a small blue flower, he said that it was the only one in the grass that he saw, that it stood out to him like I do, and then he handed it to me. I have to say, that this simple thing brought tears! I have also been noticing a lot of things that he does that I just never noticed before. I am seeing and feeling a huge improvement. Thank you. C. P. in FL (*There is a lot more involved in sessions- but this example given here gives you an idea.) To help change this, ask yourself these questions. · How is this expectation limiting me and what I want? · What am I learning (in the positive) from it not happening in the way I want? Be sure to list them out. · What internal limiting beliefs are holding this limiting expectation in place? · Ask God-Creator to shift and change this, and take a few moments to sit in stillness and feel the new energy come in. By taking a look at the way you are expecting and the limiting beliefs you are holding on to surrounding the expectation can make huge changes in your life. Let me know what you think. In love and light, |
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