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      <title>Healing Poverty Consciousness </title>
      <description>&lt;table cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0" border="0" id="tabcolumn-1" style="width: 100%; margin-bottom: 15px"&gt;&lt;tr&gt;&lt;td&gt;&lt;div id="column-1" usermodifiable="true" style="width: 100%"&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-8156247"&gt;&amp;#160;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-8156248" align="center"&gt;&lt;u&gt;&lt;font color="#000000"&gt;Healing Poverty Consciousness &lt;/font&gt;&lt;/u&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-8156250"&gt;&amp;#160;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-8156251" align="center"&gt;&lt;font color="#000000"&gt;&amp;#160;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-8156252"&gt;&amp;#160;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-8156253"&gt;&lt;font color="#000000"&gt;Welcome to the new blog.&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-8156254"&gt;&amp;#160;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-8156255"&gt;&lt;font color="#000000"&gt;In thisseries we will be looking at certain beliefs you may be carrying that are blockingyou from having financial wealth and abundance in your life. I have decided togo into this due to many of my clients having mentioned and worked on issuesconcerning the mighty dollar and struggles with it.&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-8156256"&gt;&amp;#160;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-8156257"&gt;&lt;font color="#000000"&gt;Today wewill be looking at how your family reacted to money and wealthy, successful people.&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-8156258"&gt;&amp;#160;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-8156259"&gt;&lt;font color="#000000"&gt;This cangive you some hints into your core/genetic beliefs of money. Sometimes it’sgood, and sometimes not so good. How your family reacted to wealthy and successfulpeople could have created limiting beliefs about having wealth and success inyour own life, causing you to block potential money and success from cominginto your physical reality.&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-8156260"&gt;&amp;#160;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-8156261"&gt;&lt;font color="#000000"&gt;What did youexperience as a child about money, wealth and rich people, how did your familyreact to them? Let’s break some of these things down. Be sure to muscle test onall levels (core, history, genetic, soul) for these, you may be carrying it ona subconscious level.&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-8156262"&gt;&amp;#160;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-8156263"&gt;&lt;font color="#000000"&gt;o&amp;#160;&amp;#160;Didyour family fight about money? &lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-8156264"&gt;&amp;#160;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-8156265"&gt;&lt;font color="#000000"&gt;&amp;#167;&amp;#160;If this is the case, are you carryingbeliefs that money causes conflict? No one wants conflict in their life, but ifyou carry this belief, can you see how you would block yourself from money insome way to avoid the conflict? Even though most money fights consist of lackof money, your subconscious doesn’t know the difference of lack, just theconflict and money. So it avoids them both. (Keeping you safe and potentially financiallybroke) you may also be carrying the trauma and drama of seeing fights takeplace in your cells.&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-8156266"&gt;&amp;#160;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-8156267"&gt;&lt;font color="#000000"&gt;&amp;#167;&amp;#160;Did they resent them?&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-8156268"&gt;&amp;#160;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-8156269"&gt;&lt;font color="#000000"&gt;&amp;#183;&amp;#160;&amp;#160;&amp;#160;&amp;#160;&amp;#160;&amp;#160;&amp;#160;Resentmentis a big one. It is the quickest way to block financial wealth and success fromcoming into your life. How do you react when someone drives by in a brand new expensivecar? Are you happy for them? Or does resentment come in? You can’t resent wealthand achieve it at the same time. This creates an energetic tug of war. This canalso create a situation that if wealth does come in, it quickly runs throughyour fingers, making it hard to hold on to.&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-8156270"&gt;&amp;#160;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-8156271"&gt;&lt;font color="#000000"&gt;&amp;#160;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-8156272"&gt;&amp;#160;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-8156273"&gt;&lt;font color="#000000"&gt;&amp;#167;&amp;#160;Think that they were arrogant?&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-8156274"&gt;&amp;#160;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-8156275"&gt;&lt;font color="#000000"&gt;&amp;#183;&amp;#160;&amp;#160;&amp;#160;&amp;#160;&amp;#160;&amp;#160;&amp;#160;Arrogantis interesting in itself. It is important to have self-worth and value yourself,but it needs to be in balance. If your ego isn’t your amigo, you’re in trouble.&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-8156276"&gt;&amp;#160;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-8156277"&gt;&lt;font color="#000000"&gt;&amp;#160;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-8156278"&gt;&amp;#160;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-8156279"&gt;&lt;font color="#000000"&gt;&amp;#167;&amp;#160;Snobs?&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-8156280"&gt;&amp;#160;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-8156281"&gt;&lt;font color="#000000"&gt;&amp;#183;&amp;#160;&amp;#160;&amp;#160;&amp;#160;&amp;#160;&amp;#160;&amp;#160;Thisone also goes into arrogant; bring this into balance and being showed Creator’shighest truth on this will assist you in releasing this one.&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-8156282"&gt;&amp;#160;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-8156283"&gt;&lt;font color="#000000"&gt;&amp;#160;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-8156284"&gt;&amp;#160;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-8156285"&gt;&lt;font color="#000000"&gt;&amp;#167;&amp;#160;Did they think that they stepped on alot of people to get where they are? (Clawing their way up?)&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-8156286"&gt;&amp;#160;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-8156287"&gt;&lt;font color="#000000"&gt;&amp;#183;&amp;#160;&amp;#160;&amp;#160;&amp;#160;&amp;#160;&amp;#160;&amp;#160;Ifyou think wealthy people are like this can you see how your subconscious is blockingyou? In carrying this belief, you don’t want to step on others to get anywhere.Having Creator give you a teaching of how to progress up in life without doingthis will assist you in releasing this.&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-8156288"&gt;&amp;#160;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-8156289"&gt;&lt;font color="#000000"&gt;&amp;#167;&amp;#160;Evil?&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-8156290"&gt;&amp;#160;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-8156291"&gt;&lt;font color="#000000"&gt;&amp;#183;&amp;#160;&amp;#160;&amp;#160;&amp;#160;&amp;#160;&amp;#160;&amp;#160;Wellthis speaks for itself, if you think money is evil or people who have money areevil, there may be deeper issues on this one, but it is good to take a look atwhen looking for the issues that are holding you back from achieving financial wealthand success. Having Creator teach you the truth of money from Creator’s perspectivemay help. Money is just a physical form of energy, it is necessary in this lifeto have at least some of it. If this is an issue for you, ask Creator to showyou the truth of the situation, ask to be shown how this belief is serving you.Look for the positive life lessons you are trying to learn from this.&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-8156292"&gt;&amp;#160;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-8156293"&gt;&lt;font color="#000000"&gt;&amp;#160;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-8156294"&gt;&amp;#160;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-8156295"&gt;&lt;font color="#000000"&gt;&amp;#167;&amp;#160;Corrupt?&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-8156296"&gt;&amp;#160;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-8156297"&gt;&lt;font color="#000000"&gt;&lt;font size="3"&gt;&amp;#183;&lt;/font&gt;&amp;#160;&amp;#160;&amp;#160;&amp;#160;&amp;#160;&amp;#160;&amp;#160;&amp;#160;Ihave worked with many who have this one. It can be carried into many ways ofcorruption, including sexual corruption, hiding abuse, drugs, cheating, infidelityand many more. When pondering this one, keep in mind that many of these arecarried on the genetic level. Creator can heal these as well, all you need todo is ask. Also ask Creator how it served your ancestors, what were theylearning from these things, (in the positive) Creator can heal them too. (Ifyou are uncomfortable with this, I can assist you in this if you wish.)&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-8156298"&gt;&amp;#160;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-8156299"&gt;&lt;font color="#000000"&gt;When healingyour life from these things, asking God-Creator for Creator’s perspective ofeach of these things and bring your perspective to match this will assist yougreatly. Getting the positive lessons from God, marking it complete can also relieveyou from re-experiencing negative things/ events to receive these life lessons.(Because you got the lesson already from Creator.)&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-8156300"&gt;&amp;#160;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-8156301"&gt;&lt;font color="#000000"&gt;Althoughmany of these issues are much deeper than just the surface I have covered here.They may require more digging to get to the root belief; it is a start toassist you in beginning to look at them. Be sure to re-muscle test to see if ithas cleared for you.&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-8156302"&gt;&amp;#160;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-8156303"&gt;&lt;font color="#000000"&gt;If you have furtherquestions or would like to schedule a healing session with me, you can me reachat:&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-8156304"&gt;&amp;#160;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-8156305"&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.awakenedtransforamtions.com/" class="userlink"&gt;&lt;font color="#0000ff"&gt;www.awakenedtransforamtions.com&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-8156307"&gt;&amp;#160;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-8156308"&gt;&lt;font color="#000000"&gt;&amp;#160;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;a href="mailto:kristylea@charter.net" class="userlink"&gt;&lt;font color="#0000ff"&gt;kristylea@charter.net&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-8156310"&gt;&amp;#160;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-8156311"&gt;&lt;font color="#000000"&gt;828-428-8300&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-8156312"&gt;&amp;#160;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
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      <link>http://www.thetahealingwithkristylea.com/blog/2011/12/14/Healing-Poverty-Consciousness-.aspx</link>
      <creator xmlns="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">KristyLea</creator>
      <pubDate>12/14/2011 14:59:00</pubDate>
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      <title>Expectations: How they can somtimes create limits in your life</title>
      <description>&lt;table cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0" border="0" id="tabcolumn-1" style="width: 100%; margin-bottom: 15px"&gt;&lt;tr&gt;&lt;td&gt;&lt;div id="column-1" usermodifiable="true" style="width: 100%"&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-18137618" align="center"&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;u&gt;&lt;font color="#000000"&gt;Expectations; &lt;/font&gt;&lt;/u&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-18137620" align="center"&gt;&lt;font color="#000000"&gt;How they can sometimes create limits on your life.&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-18137621"&gt;&lt;font color="#000000"&gt;&amp;#160;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-18137622"&gt;&amp;#160;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-18137623"&gt;&lt;font color="#000000"&gt;Expectations; I expect gravity to be a constant, and the sun to come up every morning. There are times when expectations become a limiting event in our lives. Today, we are taking a look into how we create expectations that limit us in our lives, how to change them and bring allowing in its place.&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-18137624"&gt;&lt;font color="#000000"&gt;When we expect something to be, or show up in our lives in a certain way, and they don’t, what then?&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-18137625"&gt;&lt;font color="#000000"&gt;Are you expecting a job to look or be a certain way, a relationship or love to be a certain way? &amp;#160;Is there an expectation preventing you from allowing it to come in a different way? Is the expectation that you are holding onto dis-allowing you to &lt;i&gt;see&lt;/i&gt; the way it is&lt;i&gt; trying&lt;/i&gt; to come in?&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-18137626"&gt;&lt;font color="#000000"&gt;Sometimes we hold onto the expectation of what something should look like (or think they should look like) to the point of not allowing any other way for it to be. This is when expectations become limiting in our lives. Sometimes this kind of expectation creates a situation that the way we want it too look like just can’t happen because of the limiting beliefs surrounding the expectation. Remember like attracts like.&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-18137627"&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;u&gt;&lt;font color="#000000"&gt;Example;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/u&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-18137629"&gt;&lt;font color="#000000"&gt;In this situation, one of my clients was having a problem within her relationship with her husband. Although she loved him, she felt that he didn’t love her in a way that she could see.&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-18137630"&gt;&lt;font color="#000000"&gt;She said, “He doesn’t give me cards or gifts, not even for my b-day or holidays. I have told him it hurts my feelings, and still just won’t do this for me, it makes me feel like he thinks I’m not worth the effort, or important to him.”&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-18137631"&gt;&lt;font color="#000000"&gt;I asked her,” in what ways does he show you he loves you?”&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-18137632"&gt;&lt;font color="#000000"&gt;Her response; “He goes to work, and keeps our cars running”……. She couldn’t think of much else.&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-18137633"&gt;&lt;font color="#000000"&gt;Through more digging, it was discovered that her father gave cards, and did small things for her mom. So her expectation that this is how love should look came into play. Because this wasn’t how her relationship was with her husband, to her he didn’t love her in the way she wanted to the point where she could not see the ways he was trying to show his love for her.&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-18137634"&gt;&lt;font color="#000000"&gt;What we did to change this?&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-18137635"&gt;&lt;font color="#000000"&gt;&amp;#183;&amp;#160;&amp;#160;&amp;#160;&amp;#160;&amp;#160;&amp;#160;&amp;#160;We worked on releasing the expectation!&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-18137636"&gt;&lt;font color="#000000"&gt;&amp;#183;&amp;#160;&amp;#160;&amp;#160;&amp;#160;&amp;#160;&amp;#160;&amp;#160;She was given many downloads surrounding how to see how her husband shows her his love from God-Creator’s perspective.&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-18137637"&gt;&lt;font color="#000000"&gt;&amp;#183;&amp;#160;&amp;#160;&amp;#160;&amp;#160;&amp;#160;&amp;#160;&amp;#160;Also working on her worthiness issues. Healing for these things.&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-18137638"&gt;&lt;font color="#000000"&gt;&amp;#183;&amp;#160;&amp;#160;&amp;#160;&amp;#160;&amp;#160;&amp;#160;&amp;#160;Took a look into what she was learning (in the positive) from feeling not worth the effort and feeling not important. (and healed these things)&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-18137639"&gt;&lt;font color="#000000"&gt;A few days after this session, I received this email.&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-18137640"&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;font color="#000000"&gt;KristyLea, I just have to thank you and let you know what has happened since our last session. My husband came in from work yesterday and he had a small blue flower, he said that it was the only one in the grass that he saw, that it stood out to him like I do, and then he handed it to me. I have to say, that this simple thing brought tears! I have also been noticing a lot of things that he does that I just never noticed before. I am seeing and feeling a huge improvement. Thank you.&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-18137641"&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;font color="#000000"&gt;C. P. in FL&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-18137642"&gt;&lt;font color="#000000"&gt;(*There is a lot more involved in sessions- but this example given here gives you an idea.) &lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-18137643"&gt;&lt;font color="#000000"&gt;To help change this, ask yourself these questions.&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-18137644"&gt;&lt;font color="#000000"&gt;&amp;#183;&amp;#160;&amp;#160;&amp;#160;&amp;#160;&amp;#160;&amp;#160;&amp;#160;How is this expectation limiting me and what I want?&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-18137645"&gt;&lt;font color="#000000"&gt;&amp;#183;&amp;#160;&amp;#160;&amp;#160;&amp;#160;&amp;#160;&amp;#160;&amp;#160;What am I learning (in the positive) from it not happening in the way I want? Be sure to list them out.&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-18137646"&gt;&lt;font color="#000000"&gt;&amp;#183;&amp;#160;&amp;#160;&amp;#160;&amp;#160;&amp;#160;&amp;#160;&amp;#160;What internal limiting beliefs are holding this limiting expectation in place?&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-18137647"&gt;&lt;font color="#000000"&gt;&amp;#183;&amp;#160;&amp;#160;&amp;#160;&amp;#160;&amp;#160;&amp;#160;&amp;#160;Ask God-Creator to shift and change this, and take a few moments to sit in stillness and feel the new energy come in.&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-18137648"&gt;&lt;font color="#000000"&gt;By taking a look at the way you are expecting and the limiting beliefs you are holding on to surrounding the expectation can make huge changes in your life.&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-18137649"&gt;&lt;font color="#000000"&gt;Let me know what you think.&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-18137650"&gt;&lt;font color="#000000"&gt;In love and light,&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-18137651"&gt;&amp;#160;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
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      <creator xmlns="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">KristyLea</creator>
      <pubDate>09/13/2011 14:50:00</pubDate>
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      <title>Welcome- Topic is Obligation</title>
      <description>&lt;table cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0" border="0" id="tabcolumn-1" style="width: 100%; margin-bottom: 15px"&gt;&lt;tr&gt;&lt;td&gt;&lt;div id="column-1" usermodifiable="true" style="width: 100%"&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-34457640"&gt;&lt;font size="3" color="#0071bc"&gt;Aug 29, 2011&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-34457641"&gt;&lt;font size="3" color="#0071bc"&gt;&amp;#160;I welcome you to the new blog! I am setting the intention to use this tool to assist others at taking a look at common issues and limiting beliefs that may be preventing you from having the life you desire. Most of you, who have come or found Awakened Transformations, are looking for healing on some level. As a spiritual-intuitive healer and certified ThetaHealing Practitioner, I do offer Private Sessions. &amp;#160;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-34457642"&gt;&lt;font size="3" color="#0071bc"&gt;Here we will be looking at many topics, I encourage all to participate. I will do my best at keeping up with all comments and questions up to date. I ask that all who do choose to participate will do so with honor and integrity.&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-34457643"&gt;&lt;font color="#0071bc"&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&amp;#160;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-34457644"&gt;&lt;font size="3" color="#0071bc"&gt;We are all here on Earth to learn and grow. I feel it is my purpose in this life to help others to do so in the highest and best way.&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-34457645"&gt;&lt;font size="3" color="#0071bc"&gt;So feel free to express yourselves, share things that come up for you while reading about the different topics, there will be common threads with others who may read them as well. In this way we can help many people discover that they can have the life they want for themselves too.&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-34457646"&gt;&lt;font color="#0071bc"&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&amp;#160;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-34457647"&gt;&lt;font size="3" color="#0071bc"&gt;*Blogging is new for me; please have patience while I figure out what all these new buttons do! LOL&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-34457648"&gt;&lt;font size="3" color="#0071bc"&gt;In love and light,&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-34457649"&gt;&lt;font size="3" color="#0071bc"&gt;KristyLea&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-34457650"&gt;&amp;#160;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-34457651"&gt;&lt;font size="3" color="#0071bc"&gt;This topic is;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-34457652"&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;u&gt;&lt;font size="3" color="#0071bc"&gt;Obligation&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/u&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-34457654"&gt;&lt;font size="3" color="#0071bc"&gt;Obligating others to show up for us in a certain way often pushes our own learning and growth. Sometimes it is a good experience, sometimes it is not. It will surprise you when looking at what you are trying to learn and master through our different emotions and experiences within our relationships with others.&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-34457655"&gt;&lt;font size="3" color="#0071bc"&gt;By releasing the people in your life from these obligations, your relationships with them will shift and change in amazing ways. To do this, I have included a few exercises you can do to assist you in taking a look into your life in this area.&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-34457656"&gt;&lt;font size="3" color="#0071bc"&gt;#1. List the people in your life who have shown up in difficult or painful ways. (Don’t dwell on it for a long time) Write their names down and a few words summarizing the way they showed up (what happened) It doesn’t matter if they are living or passed over, still in your life or not.&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-34457657"&gt;&lt;font size="3" color="#0071bc"&gt;#2. Now list the &lt;b&gt;&lt;u&gt;positive&lt;/u&gt;&lt;/b&gt; lessons you were learning from that. What did you learn from that situation or relationship?&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-34457659"&gt;&lt;font size="3" color="#0071bc"&gt;&amp;#160;&amp;#160;&amp;#160;&amp;#160;&amp;#160;&amp;#160;&amp;#160;&amp;#160;&amp;#160;&amp;#160;&amp;#160;&amp;#160;&amp;#160;&amp;#160;&amp;#160; Example- I learned to be strong, I learned to be supportive of others. &lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-34457660"&gt;&lt;font size="3" color="#0071bc"&gt;Remember you are looking for the positive things.&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-34457661"&gt;&lt;font size="3" color="#0071bc"&gt;**A helpful note, it is not the &lt;i&gt;&lt;u&gt;events of our lives &lt;/u&gt;&lt;/i&gt;that have taught your life lessons; it is the&lt;i&gt;&lt;u&gt;emotions&lt;/u&gt;&lt;/i&gt; that the event triggered, that you are learning from.&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-34457664"&gt;&lt;font size="3" color="#0071bc"&gt;In doing this, what comes up for you? I’m looking forward to all of your responses and questions.&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-34457665"&gt;&lt;font size="3" color="#0071bc"&gt;In love and light, KristyLea&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="ctrl-34457666"&gt;&lt;font color="#0071bc"&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&amp;#160;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
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